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Post by tammy76 on Oct 10, 2014 6:50:51 GMT -5
Where do I start, I found out 5 weeks ago that I was pregnant it was a shock for both my husband and myself, we couldn't understand how it was even possible as I had a tubal ligation done 9 years ago after having our son. First the doctor sent me off for an ultrasound as he expected it to be an ectopic pregnancy, but surprisingly their it was in the uterus. We were both confused but happy . It was a miracle even the women doing my ultrasound was speechless lol. Just as we were getting use to the idea of having a miracle baby I started to bleed 3 days ago, bright red blood with lots of clots and very painful abdominal cramps. My husband rushed me to the hospital, they rushed me in and the doctor took some bloods and did an internal examination and then informed us that I was having a miscarriage. They kept me overnight for observation and said That the foetus and sack will pass on its own as I was under 10 weeks pregnant. Im home now and still heavily bleeding and cramping and I cant stop crying. I asked my doctor today what the chances are of falling pregnant again he said its very unlikely I will but has given us some information on IVF treatment, so maybe after the initial shock of losing our precious miracle baby fades we might look into IVF.
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Post by adlammers on Oct 29, 2014 19:27:11 GMT -5
Tammy, I feel like I am in a similar place. After having our first son, my husband and I were unable to conceive for 13 years. Then in July, I was two weeks late and finally took a pregnancy test. At 38 I was pregnant! We were in total shock, it truly felt like a miracle. When we went to find out the gender of our baby at 16 weeks there was no heartbeat. I had to deliver our little angel on the 23rd of October. I don't know if I dare to hope that I might get pregnant again. I just cannot believe my miracle has turned into such sadness. I can't seem to stop crying either, and I don't know where to start. I hope you are feeling better now.
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Post by libralise on Nov 2, 2014 12:12:48 GMT -5
Oh Tammy and adlamers, I send my deepest condolences to both of you. I am so sorry that your surprise and excitement so quickly turned to heartbreak and sadness. I feel it in my heart when you say that you cannot stop crying. As you continue on in the grieving of your babies, don't keep your emotions in, let them out, and lean on those around you for support. I will keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers. Much love. xoxx
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Post by foreverfrenchie on Mar 31, 2015 9:21:23 GMT -5
im so sorry this has happened to you sending you so many hugs
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