Post by berlynn24 on Apr 17, 2014 19:04:50 GMT -5
I have a 33 day cycle. In February, on cd 13 (this day we had sex twice and it falls in my fertile period) and cd 19 (day after ovulation) my husband and I had unprotected sex (we practice natural family planning). I have a luteal phase of 16 days. I went 2 weeks passed my expected period date. During that 28 day span between ovulation and when I began to bleed I had tiredness, headaches at the end of every evening (not intense), sore breasts, and incredibly emotional (crying at minor/silly things). We were going to take a pregnancy test when I started bleeding. At first I thought it was just a late period but then clotting started. One particular clot was large enough that I could feel it when it passed through my cervix and out. My immediate thought was miscarriage. Im not one to jump to diagnosing myself but I felt I knew it right away. My sister said to take a pregnancy test right away. I tested at night right after passing my largest clot, I had been urinating all day because I drink almost 4.5 liters a day, so when I tested it was just a few drops of urine. My test came out negative but I wonder if that's because of the circumstance with the lack of urination on the pg test. This "period" lasted 9 days. I didnt go to the doctor because I know that there was nothing they can do if I am in fact having an early miscarriage. During that time I had to travel to visit my oldest sister who we were surprising with a baby shower (she is expecting next month).
When I came home I decided I needed to see a doctor. On April 4th (15 days after) I saw a OB/GYN. He did a quick pelvic exam, asked if I had felt pregnant, ran a blood test, then told me he would see me the following week with the results. During the week of the 4th I had what I thought were symptoms of a UTI. I didnt have pain urinating or bleeding but when I released my bladder (which felt good) I could feel it contract and once it was empty my lower abdomen felt very uncomfortable and like I had to immediately pee again. On April 11th I went back and it was the quickest appointment Ive ever been to. Not even 10 minutes. He came in and said my levels looked normal that it was probably a heavy period and if I wanted to insure not getting pregnant I should go on birth control. I was stunned-I felt completely dismissed. I wasnt even given the opportunity to ask a question. Would he have been able to confirm if I had had an early miscarriage almost two weeks after the fact?
I feel very confused and very sad. I truly believe I miscarried. My body has finally started to feel normal again. Today my period started 7 days sooner then it should have but is consistent with what I generally experience during menstruation.
Am I crazy for emotionally feeling like I miscarried without having medical proof? Do I have a right to grieve? Im so unsure of everything.
When I came home I decided I needed to see a doctor. On April 4th (15 days after) I saw a OB/GYN. He did a quick pelvic exam, asked if I had felt pregnant, ran a blood test, then told me he would see me the following week with the results. During the week of the 4th I had what I thought were symptoms of a UTI. I didnt have pain urinating or bleeding but when I released my bladder (which felt good) I could feel it contract and once it was empty my lower abdomen felt very uncomfortable and like I had to immediately pee again. On April 11th I went back and it was the quickest appointment Ive ever been to. Not even 10 minutes. He came in and said my levels looked normal that it was probably a heavy period and if I wanted to insure not getting pregnant I should go on birth control. I was stunned-I felt completely dismissed. I wasnt even given the opportunity to ask a question. Would he have been able to confirm if I had had an early miscarriage almost two weeks after the fact?
I feel very confused and very sad. I truly believe I miscarried. My body has finally started to feel normal again. Today my period started 7 days sooner then it should have but is consistent with what I generally experience during menstruation.
Am I crazy for emotionally feeling like I miscarried without having medical proof? Do I have a right to grieve? Im so unsure of everything.