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Post by joan on Jul 30, 2013 14:31:08 GMT -5
My Gordie - 11 years today since you entered heaven.
Miss you always, my babes.
Much love
Mum
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Post by judiann on Jul 31, 2013 22:55:49 GMT -5
(((((((((((Joan))))))))))))
Where did 11 yeears go....wasn't it just yesterday that we whispered "I Love You" to them softly in their ear while they slept?? Sweet Dreams, my Love??
Extra hard with your mum too.....was horrible for me
Can't do this now....just know how much I Love you
(((((((((((hugs)))))))))) judiann
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Post by jezebel on Aug 1, 2013 9:56:02 GMT -5
I to wonder where the time goes, David has been gone a little more then a year but someohow the year went by so fast I would think it would drag on and go slowly but it goes as fast as it did before he had died.
I am sorry for your loss I am sorry for everyone here. I just thinking it is not fair and my husband has told me (before David died) life is not fair but it reallty sicks sucks or what ever you like to say for a child dying.
It hurts mentally a physically does this ever end?
Rhayden
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Post by joy2013 on Aug 7, 2013 21:59:44 GMT -5
Dear Joan, I got on this board for the first time in about 8 years. I remember you and Gordie. I am coming up on my 10 year mark. My name is shirley and Matthew died in jan 2004. I don't remember the name I used then. I'm so sorry for your loss. How are you doing daily? I am struggling still and know I will never be as before. it was good (if being on a grief board can be called good) to see you on here.
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Post by joan on Aug 18, 2013 8:06:04 GMT -5
Thx judi yes the mother stuff makes it harder
Rhayden - it doesn't end -but does get "softer"
Hi Shirley - I remember you and Matthew. Daily, I do pretty well except around the dates that trigger feelings like his death date or birthday. A few years I have gotten through one or the other of these well, but not always. We will never be the same, and I have accepted that and that missing Gordie and feeling grief and being "screwed up" at times is just how my life is now. I am sure it will never go away - the hole in my heart is always there. I find I remember more of the good times now than I used to, but them that triggers the missing too, It is a no win for us, till we see them again in heaven. (((((((hugs))))) to you and thanks for posting
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