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Post by judiann on Apr 19, 2013 23:13:22 GMT -5
don't know??? i know it's about our kids..... but right now i feel like a "motherless child" & i am  .... love ya's, judiann |
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Post by joan on Apr 20, 2013 11:23:12 GMT -5
Of course you can -as far as I am concerned. We all have talked about lots of thing in our lives, not just our children. Go for it!!!
Love and hugs
Joan
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Post by ericsmom on Apr 20, 2013 13:40:11 GMT -5
We are your friends and you can tell us anything.
Love you.
Denise
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Post by toxophilite on Apr 21, 2013 0:58:20 GMT -5
Judiann, of course you can talk about your mother.
As Joan said, lots of things get talked about here, we are all sisters and anything goes.
Talk away any time you need to.......love Janet
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Post by judiann on Apr 21, 2013 18:50:57 GMT -5
Thank you so much (((((hugs))))).... I just don't know what to do with myself, my feelings....it's all a blank, a spot I used to know?? My mom died due to COPD, heart problems & a Very Aggressive, maglinant lung cancer....which I only found out about it 4 wks ago. She never told me.... I don't know why....maybe things could have been different?? or better?? I don't know.... A very Painful lung cancer....killed her. i have sooo many questions.....none will ever be answered. i'm lost here. it's only been a week today..... i wish my husband would shut up about "missing" her....maybe hold me, tell me he's so sorry for my loss, maybe understands a little.....*sigh* can't do this now.... love ya all. judiann |
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Post by lindac on Apr 21, 2013 19:07:34 GMT -5
((((((((((((((((((((((Judiann)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You can talk about anything you want. We've all been on this grief road for a very long time and while your mom isn't a child, it is a grief and it also brings back your grief for Melvin. I know your heart is hurting but remember to take care of you and take this one day at a time. You can do it!
Holding you in my heart and prayers.
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Post by jezebel on Apr 25, 2013 9:48:13 GMT -5
I am sorry for your loss I wish I had more words of comfort for you. |
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Post by grieving55 on May 27, 2013 18:29:23 GMT -5
I can't imagine losing my mom. I'm so very sorry for your loss!
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Post by Teeny's Mom on Jul 2, 2013 21:39:11 GMT -5
Judiann,
Your mom and mine must have been sisters somewhere in time. She also died from aggressive cancer that she never told me about. She was abusive verbally, destructive and very mean. But, I miss her. Miss having a mother, just like you. I think it is all OK. Hard to deal with. Sorry for what you are going through. Wish this was easier for all of us.
Cindee
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