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Post by judiann on Apr 13, 2013 0:42:08 GMT -5
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Post by toxophilite on Apr 13, 2013 3:16:32 GMT -5
((((((Dear sweet Judiann)))))), how very sad for you.
My heart bleeds for you, you have had so much sadness in your life, hopefully this will mark the end of the chapter.
I guess you hate her but also miss her terribly. You don't have to do anything but what feels right for you.
Take whatever help is offered you, but above all, be gentle on yourself, don't feel guilty about what might have been.
You did whatever you had to do to stay sane. You are probably your own worst enemy right now.
Love your darling Shoei as much as you can, she will help you through all of it, as, hopefully, so will we here, your friends through eternity.
Feel the love and support washing over you, dear friend, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Hugs and more hugs Janet
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Post by Healthylife4 Tori on Apr 13, 2013 16:24:58 GMT -5
((Judiann)) Sending love and prayers.
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Post by icerayven on Apr 13, 2013 17:55:48 GMT -5
Hugs! Sorry about your mom. I don't have adequate words for the pain I know you must be feeling. I hope today goes gentle as well as tomorrow. I know a book called "the next place" helped a lot of people I know when they lost their loved ones..
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Post by joan on Apr 13, 2013 21:30:47 GMT -5
(((((((Hugs))))))) judiann - my condolences on your loss. Even if the relationship has been strained, you have still lost a parent. Do what you have to do to make the necessary arrangements and above all - look after you. As Janet said, accept any help offered. You have been through a rough time the past few weeks on top of a rough lifetime of ... Know you are in our prayers. Please keep us updated as to how you are. Love and hugs Joan  |
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Post by judiann on Apr 14, 2013 21:51:32 GMT -5
(((((hugs)))))) & Thanks for caring.... Janet...Yes, this may mark the end of the chapter but, what I'm finding out lately, with her lies about me...may take a while. I do Not Hate her....I just Hate what she has done... the problems, the trouble she has caused with MY family, MY children & ME.....she stood as a wall between us. As of now...I do not miss her. Maybe that will come later?? Don't see it right now....I am Free. I did the very Best I knew how to care for her (I promised I would) & she fought me Every single step of the way.....how sad that she didn't trust me. It's a long story...shocking how much can happen, change in 30 days....  I do not feel guilty or blame myself.....my worst enemy, beloved opponent just passed... It was worth the battle just to know Her. My Mom died. How sad the loss .... judiann |
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Post by ericsmom on Apr 16, 2013 15:08:30 GMT -5
Yes you do know what to do......you go on living....in spite of her....because of her....but you do it!!
Love you.
Denise
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Post by lindac on Apr 16, 2013 21:58:21 GMT -5
((((((((((((((((((((((Judiann))))))))))))))))))))))
Sending tons of hugs and prayers. It is sad to lose a parent no matter what they have done. It is your mother. I am praying for peace and comfort especially as you go through the next few days. Keep in touch with us. Scritch your kitty. They are such a comfort.
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