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Jan 27, 2013 23:19:16 GMT -5
Post by kendrad on Jan 27, 2013 23:19:16 GMT -5
I'm new to this.I lost my son Kaiden on march 5th 2012 and I've tried to deal with this on my own but its hard..i can't talk to people because I feel like no one understands.my doc said this was a place I could go to talk to people who do understand..so I'm hoping she was right
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Jan 28, 2013 0:13:23 GMT -5
Post by kendrad on Jan 28, 2013 0:13:23 GMT -5
I feel very empty and I feel like everyone has forgot about him..i miss the happiness and love I felt when I was Prego..i feel like when I talk about him people feel like I'm being dramatic.maybe I am but it feels so real to me..he made me feel like I never ever thought I could...is it normal to still feel like this?sometimes that day is stuck on replay..idk if I'm making it worst by keeping everything inside but I actually feel bad when I get that pitiful look from people I feel bad for not just keeping it as my own burden..now I watch my friends with there babies and all I can think is I wonder this I wonder that..i know it wasn't my fault his cord was in a knot but it doesn't give me any peace of mind...
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raosa
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Jan 28, 2013 15:39:03 GMT -5
Post by raosa on Jan 28, 2013 15:39:03 GMT -5
Hi Kendra,
I'm so sorry for your loss! I encourage you to find someone you can talk to about your baby. It is very important for you to express your thoughts and feelings. My family was very supportive. A few of my friends were, but most didn't know what to do/say as the situation made them uncomfortable. Even with family support, I did go to a counselor and she also helped me.
How far along were you when you lost your son? Did you name him?
((Hugs))
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Jan 28, 2013 20:52:38 GMT -5
Post by kendrad on Jan 28, 2013 20:52:38 GMT -5
Thank you...i was 24 weeks when I lost him I named him kaiden..I tried the talking to family and friends it didn't really work out well..maybe I will try a counselor right now I'm just searching for ANYTHING that can provide some kind of comfort..if that is even possible..im also sorry for your loss
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