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Post by jezebel on Jan 24, 2013 9:05:06 GMT -5
I have had to tell [people of this awful event in my life I am past crying when I tell them they say I am very strong.
I don't understand what do they mean?
Rhayden
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Post by jerbear895 on Jan 26, 2013 18:22:47 GMT -5
It's because just because on the outside you may appear normal some they think you are strong. They say things like I don't know how you do it, like we have any choice. They can't alway see the damage inside.
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Post by jezebel on Jan 28, 2013 10:04:29 GMT -5
oh because I don't show that my spirit is broke and my life has changed and never be the same and they don't see what at time is a roller coaster ride of emotions that they would never want to be on ? is this why? maybe one day someone says that to me I will ask how that and see what they say.
It is not by choice we are like this and it is not choice we handle it and if asked how we do this I have no answer it was not my choice to have my son die it was not my choice for the fire to be It was just how I handle things and frankly you all know there are time that you wonder if you are nuts and need help
I have no answers for people who have not had their child die I was however once at Atlantic city a lady siting next to me said her child was missing I had no way of answering this and loss for words what do you say to someone who's child is missing do you tell them you hope they are found safe and sound do you say you are sorry what is it you say this seems to be like when my son died they didn't know what to say they said things you hear oh he is in a better place but to this missing child's mother I only could say oh?.......
and it seemed like avoided her how awful a act and why didn't I say more I was dumb founded what could of I said to comfort her??
Rhayden
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