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Post by woody13 on Jan 10, 2013 9:44:48 GMT -5
My name is Sue. My 11 year old daughter, Sydney passed away suddenly on August 20 2012. I am so lost without her. My days are filled with pain and sadness. All I want is to hold her and hear her voice again. How will I live without her? This pain is almost unbearable. I am so broken..
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Post by Clara Hinton on Jan 10, 2013 10:26:12 GMT -5
Sue, I'm so very sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter, Sydney. I know this seems totally unbearable right now, and I believe the pain of losing a child is comparable to nothing else. I've lost babies during miscarriage, and I delivered a stillborn son, and I also am a sibling whose sister died very unexpectedly when she was 13. For the first few years after the loss of my sister, Carmella (we called her "Mellie") our entire family was lost. Nothing was right or good or okay. Our lives were literally turned inside out and upside down. It takes a long time to get to a point of finding your place in life again. Right now we are here to support you, to listen to you, to send you cyber hugs when you need them. If and when you feel like it, please share more about your daughter Sydney. I know she was a special, special daughter! Thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Clara Hinton
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Post by myheart on Apr 9, 2013 9:53:21 GMT -5
I am so sorry. My boy died when he was ten. It's, unbelievably, been a few years, but I remember the day oh so vividly. I know how much pain is in your heart. I know you feel swallowed up, like your in a haze. You feel sick and hysterical and then angry and confused. I felt I couldn't breathe for so long. I wish I could give you this great advice, but I can't. I can only say that you grieve how and as long as you need. Don't let anyone decide that for you. I came here a lot, everyday in the beginning. To voice the pain in a place that understood, the only ones who understood and it gave me the only outlet I had. Just take one day at a time, don't think long term right now. Right now you may just need to take it hour by hour. Please share your daughter with us whenever your ready. I will be thinking of you and wishing you the most gentle days possible.
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Post by pocooso on May 30, 2013 14:02:12 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss. I agree; losing a child is unbearable. My 9-year-old was murdered by an unremorseful drunk driver. I have always been shy, so I have few close friends. The community was supportive. I hope you have family and friends to help you during this difficult time.
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Post by grieving55 on Jun 3, 2013 9:28:49 GMT -5
Oh so very very sorry! I have three children myself and every parent's worst nightmare has got to be losing a child. Please utilize the people in this forum - they can help.
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