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Dec 31, 2012 22:21:33 GMT -5
Post by justlostanangel on Dec 31, 2012 22:21:33 GMT -5
I know that it's not our place to know everything, to understand everything, but today was one of those days.....At work the last couple of weeks we've had lots of women who've been pregnant 5 or more times, & don't have custody of ANY of their kids. Most have positive drug screens, etc. I try not to be rude, hateful, or judgmental. But there was one today....UGH! I really could've have smacked her on the head, & not felt too badly about it! Her only concern was getting something with caffeine in it to drink, & going out to smoke! Not her preterm labor, not her baby...NOPE, just her smoking & soda!! Why does it seem like people who have no business at all being pregnant just keep breeding, & making taxpayers cover their expenses....and so many on this board would LOVE to have a baby, & can't....... Just really got to me today! Sorry for the rant, but I knew this was one place I could do it & would be understood!
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Jan 7, 2013 15:49:28 GMT -5
Post by Clara Hinton on Jan 7, 2013 15:49:28 GMT -5
This is a valid question/cry/rant and one that has been asked time and time again -- with no real answer! I see it in my field of work a lot, also, and it is so sad. Some people bring children into this world without a thought for human life, while others would give anything in the world to have a child, and they will try every measure possible to conceive and carry a baby to term, and instead they are dealt a hand of pain and heartache. My best shot at answering this is simply that life isn't fair. I know that doesn't in any way take away your pain, but the hard fact is that life really and truly isn't fair. Sending an extra big hug to you today. I hope today is a more gentle day for you. Love, Clara
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Kayt
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Jan 9, 2013 16:24:55 GMT -5
Post by Kayt on Jan 9, 2013 16:24:55 GMT -5
Oh I completely agree. It's so hard to see parents neglecting their children or being pregnant and having a complete disregard for the life they are growing. So many of them do whatever they want while pregnant and end up with healthy babies when so many others do everything as correctly as humanly possible and end up with heartache through no fault of their own.
Life really isn't fair, though I wish so badly that it was.
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Jan 14, 2013 19:38:49 GMT -5
Post by jezebel on Jan 14, 2013 19:38:49 GMT -5
I don't want to sound harsh here but in my opinion these people who just keep breeding and have no sense of what they are doing to the child within and loose the child maybe it is best that they do not all do but if they can't seem to care for the child within maybe they should not be a parent. We all know there is no directs with the child and you learn as you go along but those who just do thing THEY KNOW will harm the child with in well I am sorry they need to be sterilized I met one female she had 5 kids and one on the way all had different daddys (I KID NOT) I said why have so many she was on welfare and on section 8 she said for the money she is to pay a faction in rent and gets I don't know how much in food stamps and money for all the kids whether it be welfare ( she doesn't know who the daddy is) or child support. NOT ME please don't take this wrong but I had one child and not due to his death but after I had him I didn't want to be pregnant again ever I disliked the labor and the pain so I didn't want another one. I think if you want to have a million children and pay for all of them and not have welfare to do this that is fine but I see people on welfare that should not be on it as you all have seen I am sure.
I am with you as to what they do before the life within and how they harm it.
Rhayden
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Jan 17, 2013 21:56:20 GMT -5
Post by justlostanangel on Jan 17, 2013 21:56:20 GMT -5
Appreciate all the input! I know wishing life could be fair is a pointless exercise, & yet....sometimes I still do it! I love my job, but there are times I wish I had a different one. You can't exactly smack people for doing stupid things ;P It's nice to know that I can vent here & not be judged!
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Healthylife4 Tori
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A bear ever how hard he tries grows tubby without excerise- Winnie the Pooh
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Mar 17, 2013 16:49:57 GMT -5
Post by Healthylife4 Tori on Mar 17, 2013 16:49:57 GMT -5
((Hugs)) I have asked the same question- But at the same time keep telling myself, If good things can happen for people who do not care - for the precious gift of being a parent then good things can happen for me too. Praying for you friend.
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Mar 23, 2013 23:54:06 GMT -5
Post by justlostanangel on Mar 23, 2013 23:54:06 GMT -5
Tori---Thanks so much!! Praying for you too!!
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