mouse
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Post by mouse on Nov 27, 2012 10:07:11 GMT -5
It's been 17 months sinc I miscarried at only 1 month pregnant. The loss hit me REALLY hard at first but I'm ok for the most part these days. It still makes me sad when I pregnant women. I don't like it, it kinda makes me feel crazy. Any advice on how to overcome this?
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Post by april01 on Dec 13, 2012 20:31:24 GMT -5
I don't really have any advice, I'm only 2 months into this healing process, but I understand what you mean. I was the 4th girl at my work to be pregnant. One is due a month before I was, and the other three have now gone off on their mat leaves and have babies. I hate seeing them pregnant, but I hate even more hearing them complain about their pregnancies.
I know something that has been helping me is just acknowledging that I was pregnant, I am a mother and I had a baby. I just never got to meet her. Remember that you are a mother too.
Not sure if that helps, but know that I fully understand
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Post by emily on Dec 18, 2012 0:00:46 GMT -5
I have no advice because after almost 3 years, I'm still angry and bitter. Just work at getting through each minute. There are still days when I just shut down. Hang in there
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Post by redbarron980 on Jan 14, 2013 17:58:31 GMT -5
It has been 5 years for me and it hasn't been easy and I haven't been able to get pregnant since. I hate baby showers and I hate when my mom says she can't wait for me to have kids. I focus on what I do have in my life, what I can control. The rest... I try to leave up to God!
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