back from PA

[jezebel]

I went out the 10Th of Nov. to see David and to maker sure of his headstone it is fine but the rotten kids ( B'stards) took his flowers we had put there for him not sure who did it but it looked to me as when they put the head stone in that they broke the little cross it was ceramic it was nice I don't know who gave it to David it was on the front lawn of the house one day with flowers someone else gave him. I have it I told David I will fix it and bring it back once fixed.

I think it is because it is a new headstone and maybe in a year thinks will be ok to put there. I had a rabbit that looked like the rabbit he had her I gave him a Flemish giant she was 25 lbs and so friendly but her time came when she could have any more babies but this rabbit look the color of her when I was at the headstone she had holes in her so I bought a bigger rabbit not sure the weight it was heavy about 35 lbs I think I don't think some one can easily pick it up and it is huge. I took pictures only at night I was trying to get his spirit on camera but nothing I guess he don't know how to do this only to touch me but I will try again the next time I am to see him.

I stayed with my Auntie Claire while I was out it was nice visit I was only 3 days 4 if you count the day I came in but I was in at 5:00 something PM

I was sad that they couldn't leave the flower with David and that the little cross was broke but his headstone is the most unique in there no one else has a picture on theirs and the dragon is so good. I just hope the kids don't scratch it up.

I will post the night picture when I empty the car out I can't believe all the crap I have in it.

Rhayden

[joan]

Glad the headstone is so outstanding. and you had a good visit with your aunt. Hope there is no more vandaliism -that is upsetting. Hopefully they will do9 no more damage around when your son is.

Take care - the first year or two is the worst. You are doing the things that need to be done. o can always bringt more decorations if you want to. Part of still loving him is doing those things for him. We still are mums and need to do things for our children even if they are not here with us.

(((((hugs)))))

Joan

[jezebel]

David's grave I thought all you might want to see it I only took front as I have stuff in the front. It is true the wind could of blew things away so I didn't put flowers down again I think only stuff that the wind can't blow away or flowers that will die that way there is some thing there.


What do you think I have the marker for to find his grave before the headstone was in and I brought it back I put it in with the animals he liked do you think it would be odd to place things there I would place at David.s grave since I can not get to see him a lot I know he is not in my back yard but is it silly to do that? to place flowers that will come up every year or maybe dogs and dragons I don't have to worry about kids taking them as I would at the cemetery.

Just wondering

[joan]

I think it is fine to do that. I have Gordie's bench across the street and plant things around it or place flowers on it.

Do whatever you need to do. This is your grief journey, and you knew David the best 9f anyone, and what would be meaningfull for him and for you.