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Post by justlostanangel on Jul 20, 2012 14:48:53 GMT -5
I'm truly struggling with the decision to stop ttc or not. After the last m/c, we "took a break" from ttc for a while, but then we started ttc again. But, no success yet, & with the big 40 b-day coming up in Jan., I find myself wondering if my fertile time is over. I'm so conflicted; after having our "surprise" son in 2008, we were SO happy, & really wanted to have at least 1 more....but then the heartache of 2 m/c, a D&C, & absolutely no success in ttc. I don't know if I have the strength to keep trying, & dealing with no bfp to celebrate! There have been a few times when AF was late, & your hopes build up, then they get dashed. With everything that's going on with our family, I just don't know if I can deal with one more thing! Have any of you ladies had to deal with the decision to keep trying or to stop? Any advice? I appreciate the chance to "vent!"
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Post by Miss Sunflower on Jul 22, 2012 1:10:20 GMT -5
No advice, just letting you know that I read this and am praying for you. I believe so strongly that your rainbow baby will come, but understand if you don't continue to try.
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Post by justlostanangel on Jul 23, 2012 17:49:06 GMT -5
Darcy----Thank you!! It means so much that with everything you have to do, taking care of Ezra, etc, that you took the time to encourage me. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} Right now, it's sort of "whatever it will be;" we're not plotting fertile times, etc, but we're not trying to prevent pg either. I'm just leaving it up to God; well, trying to anyway!
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faithinangels
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ectopic lost 6/4/09 at 6w 5d. EDD 1/23/10. m/c lost 5/9/10 (mothers day) at 6 w 1d. EDD 1/1/11
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Post by faithinangels on Jul 23, 2012 23:47:43 GMT -5
Hugs, Been there myself. Ended up not really trying, but not really preventing either. Sending sticky baby vibes your way.
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Post by marianne on Jul 24, 2012 0:50:39 GMT -5
i think your doing the right thing. try not to count days or look for signs etc. Good luck
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Post by justlostanangel on Jul 25, 2012 17:48:45 GMT -5
Thanks ladies!! Your support means SO much!! {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
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Healthylife4 Tori
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A bear ever how hard he tries grows tubby without excerise- Winnie the Pooh
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Post by Healthylife4 Tori on Jul 28, 2012 19:28:09 GMT -5
No advice really, I just wanted to say I understand. - I hope you are beautifully surprised with a healthy pregnancy. - for me I have spent five years here with four angels but remain hopeful. - We do not seek out fertility treatments or anything.
For me looking in the mirror isn't helping but... LOL But Faith gets me through. I hope you find peace in the waiting. ((Hugs))
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Post by justlostanangel on Jul 29, 2012 14:00:06 GMT -5
{{{{{{Tori}}}}}} Sending you all the "sticky baby vibes" I possibly can!!
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Healthylife4 Tori
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A bear ever how hard he tries grows tubby without excerise- Winnie the Pooh
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Post by Healthylife4 Tori on Jul 31, 2012 22:08:01 GMT -5
Thank you Just lost a angel. I hope I didnt make the post seem about myself!! Alot of women Past 40 on here have went on to have rainbow babies. So they give alot of hope. Praying for you to be surprised without trying.
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Post by justlostanangel on Aug 1, 2012 11:02:41 GMT -5
Tori---No, you didn't make that post seem selfish!! Those ladies can give hope to the both of us!! Praying for you too!! And thanks!
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