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Post by thetoddclan on May 6, 2012 11:46:53 GMT -5
I had a miscarriage at 13 weeks, 8 years ago and just had another at 19 weeks, delivered yesterday.
I am terrified, TERRIFIED to even try having more babies.
We decided that we will try once more and if this happens again, my tubes are getting tied and we are adopting, I can not deal with this pain and heartache. My gosh, it feels like it is killing me!
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Post by justlostanangel on May 6, 2012 19:31:06 GMT -5
{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} to you as you're dealing with another loss!!! Losing a baby, or as is the case for so many of us, losing more than one, is overwhelming. I do not blame you for being scared of trying again! It's such a tough decision! I'm working on that decision myself; the agony of thinking you're pregnant, only to have AF show up late, it's excruciating. Please know that whatever you decide, we're here for you! Please feel free to post as often, or as little, as you'd like!
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Post by mcphillips11 on May 8, 2012 12:49:49 GMT -5
i know exactly what your dealing i just lost my third loss on april 20th i have not had a baby survive yet. i scared to death too but for me need to carrying my own so much greater to feel my baby move inside and to give so great for me and boyfriend are going to try again. it was a tough decision to make for me. but i know exactly what your going through i almost feel like we are the ones that miss them the most i mean we have are significant other here for but i dont think they really understand the hear we go through, but i will tell one thing posting on here and just reading knowing that we arent alone helps because that this time we feel empty and alone right now. do what you need to do for yourself and take care of yourself
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Post by thetoddclan on May 13, 2012 10:46:32 GMT -5
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Post by lauren&k&p&a&j&b's mom on May 13, 2012 11:07:38 GMT -5
I am so very sorry to hear of your losses and am glad that you have found this site full of people who understand and care, having been there ourselves. With today being Mother's Day it is especially difficult to have lost a child or children.
You will need lots of time to grieve -although the world will tell you differently. In many ways you will never stop missing your babies and wondering what life would have been like if they could have stayed. However, eventually the pain does get easier to bear. The thing that seems to help the most is talking with people who truly get it. Hope you will be back here often to do that. (((HUGS)))
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Healthylife4 Tori
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A bear ever how hard he tries grows tubby without excerise- Winnie the Pooh
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Post by Healthylife4 Tori on May 18, 2012 21:32:47 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your losses. ((hugs))
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Post by jojo1876 on Jun 6, 2012 14:50:11 GMT -5
I know exactly how you feel. I had my first m/c in February 2011 and my second this past March. After several tests, the doctor said that everything is normal. I was just given the green light to start trying again. I am ovulating next week and to be honest, I am terrified as well. I am not going to let that stop me. I just have to pray that this is the baby I was meant to have. I am going to force myself to have good thoughts and try my hardest not be afraid. Good luck to you and many hugs!! <3
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