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Post by myangelamanda on Mar 20, 2012 11:42:42 GMT -5
(((((hugs))))) I wanted to just let you know that I'm thinking about you this week. I know Jared's birthday is coming up in a few days. Every time I see a pinwheel I think of Jared. I was wondering what plans you have this year?
xox ~michele
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Post by jaredsmommyforever on Mar 20, 2012 12:05:25 GMT -5
Dearest Michele,
Thank you!!!!!!! You are so incredibly sweet to be thinking of us! I was thinking pinwheels again, but wish I could think of a new idea as well. How can it be that I don't know how to properly celebrate my precious boy because I don't know what he would be into at this age? This grief journey is so unbearably hard in so many millions of ways.
But it helps so much that you remembered and to have his significant life event matter. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
So good to be in contact with you!
xoxo
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Post by missingisaiah on Mar 20, 2012 14:56:40 GMT -5
(((((HUGS)))) It stinks that we don't know what our child would like. It's just not right. I do like the idea of pinwheels. May the days ahead be as gentle as possible.
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Post by jaredsmommyforever on Mar 21, 2012 1:51:05 GMT -5
Thanks, Brenda. I appreciate your wish for me.
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Post by missingisaiah on Mar 25, 2012 22:40:08 GMT -5
How are you today?
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Post by pamela on Mar 26, 2012 16:15:47 GMT -5
(((((((Denise)))))
Thinking of you and your sweet boy. I put a pin wheel in my new garden in memory of Jared. Wish I could share a picture but only have Internet on my iphOne right now.
Thinking of you always
Love to you and Jared Pam
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Post by jaredsmommyforever on Mar 26, 2012 22:27:52 GMT -5
Brenda,
Thank you so much for asking. For the second year in a row, Jared's birthday celebration with our families at the cemetery was rained out. That was disappointing. It feels less powerful to celebrate at a later date. And then I took a red-eye last night, so it was hectic when I would have liked to just have been focused on Jared's birthday. But I am okay I guess. I just have to figure out when to reconvene everyone. I want to feel like I am honoring him properly. But it is never enough. Thank you.
Pam,
It is so great to hear from you! Thank you so much for thinking of Jared with your pinwheel, that makes me so happy. I did buy some new pinwheels to be decorated for Jared's celebration, as well as some decoratable garden stakes. But they will have to wait a few weeks until I am back in town and can put them to good use with everyone. I love that Jared is associated with pinwheels-- that's a happy thought. And at least some people IRL remembered this year. That is something. What a life this is.
Thinking of you and sending love.
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