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Post by danischmitz21 on Mar 9, 2012 2:21:20 GMT -5
jacob, my son, died not to long ago on 3/4/2012. I know it has not been a long time, i just can't imagine this pain ever going away.
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Post by missingisaiah on Mar 9, 2012 16:30:25 GMT -5
((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) I'm so sorry. When you feel up to it, please share your story with us any pictures.
During the first several months, just remember you don't have to try to survive the whole day. You just have to survive this very second. For about the first 8 months after Isaiah died, when things got really bad, I reminded myself that I could survive this second. Just had to live through this second. And I did. Slowly I could live through minutes, then days, then weeks, etc.
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Post by jaredsmommyforever on Mar 10, 2012 12:45:16 GMT -5
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son. The pain never does go away, but with time it becomes tolerable. But for now, as Brenda said, it is about just getting through the moments. We are here with support and to provide perspective, when we can help, as somehow we have lived through the same loss.
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Post by joan on Mar 11, 2012 21:54:05 GMT -5
(((((Hugs)))) so sorry for the loss of your beloved son. The pain is dreadful at the beginning. It will ease up but takes a lot of tme and tears. One breath at a time, you will get through it.Come back and share more when you are ready. more (((((((hugs))))). Wish no one had to go through this.
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Post by kathyd on Apr 7, 2012 19:22:04 GMT -5
Jacobs Mom. Have you checked back in here? I hope that you find some comfort in these raw, painful days.
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Post by myangelamanda on Apr 23, 2012 17:47:54 GMT -5
((((((((hugs)))))))))) I am so sorry you lost your sweet little man. The pain is excruciating in the first many many years and that is putting it mildly, but it somehow does, in a very strange sort of way does manifest itself so that we survive it or get really really good at faking that we are. No one can ever even attempt to begin to understand the level of pain loosing a child causes a mom or dad unless they've been there. I am so sorry you're here, but please come here and share Jacob with us when you are ready.
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Post by weeblemom on Apr 28, 2012 20:33:16 GMT -5
I am SO sorry! It is an unimaginable pain, that no one should have to endure. Please come back as often as you can. The ladies here really understand and are so helpful. We would love to hear about Jacob when you are ready. (((Hugs)))
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Post by myheart on May 3, 2012 0:51:52 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss. As the others of said just focus on each day,each hour. We are here for you when you feel like no one else understands. The pain is like nothing you could have imagined. These are the worst moments right in the beginning. You never think you will stop crying, the pain feels like it could rip you open or smother you. Eventually your body and mind find a way to numb you, because it's the only way. I am so so sorry for your loss.
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