kind of ot

[jadalynnsmommy]

This is kind of OT but not entirely since its affecting my health. Me and my babys father aren't technically together, we are moving out and back to our families house April 1st because its financially and emotionally beneficial for us. But my concern is, he tries to control every aspect of my life. This is going to come out weird but I am quite close with my ex and his family as I worked with him and his mom at their family business and after him and I broke up his mom said some very hurtful things. So tonight she has invited me to a bon fire and dinner at her house as an apology and a congratulations on my pregnancy. So my current roommate/ex/babys father got very mad and yelled at me, which has now caused me to shake and my heart to race. Him and I aren't together we sleep in different rooms and don't do things together very much, so I am just worried.

I know this is random and I've been posting a lot. I'm just concerned he will get worse and worse when we don't live together

I guess I'm asking if anyone has dealt with this kind of thing before?

[iseult]

If this is a huge concern maybe you can talk with a social worker about setting up couseling for you two. Alot of states will help pay for it if they know that the adults are trying to make sure things stay civil for their little one.