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Post by saramargaret on Apr 9, 2011 9:40:10 GMT -5
Two weeks ago my water broke for baby A. I went into the hospital and gave birth to my baby boy Zahary at 25 weeks gestation. They couldn't save him because he had diaphragmatic hernia. The placenta could not be removed, nor my contractions delayed. His triplet sister Eeva was born the same day in the evening, she was perfect but not ready to be born. She lived in my arms for 1 hour and 30 wrapped in a warm blanket. A few hours later her little brother Simeon was born he lived wrapped in our arms for 1 hour 45 minutes. They were micro-preemies, very badly wanted, terribly missed. The pain is sometimes unbearable.
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Post by mouse on Sept 8, 2011 19:50:51 GMT -5
Im so sorry for your loss. Ill keep your family in my prayers. I w ish there were more I could say  |
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Post by umziyad on Jan 10, 2012 15:13:30 GMT -5
I completely understand what you mean about the pain being unbearable. I gave birth to my twin boys, Adam and Ziyad, at 24 weeks. They were 1.5 and 1.7 lbs ... also micro-premies. They both lived in the NICU for a few days, but both died within three days. Now, only two months later, the pain is still so vivid and primal. We had no complications at all; just in for our routine, 24-week appointment, when they said the doc wanted me in labor and delivery. We were supposed to be headed out of town; instead we were welcoming, albeit WAY to early, our beautiful sons. I hurt with you and for you. My hope is that you're healing little by little.
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Post by dawn on Jan 21, 2012 21:51:27 GMT -5
((((hugs))))) I am so so sorry.  |
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Post by Clara Hinton on Jan 26, 2012 12:19:41 GMT -5
My heart is always so saddened when I read of double and triple losses such as you've shared with us here. The grief seems to be compounded in so many ways. Please be extra kind to yourselves as you walk through this journey of loss. There will be waves of grief come over you....some days will seem far more manageable than others. Remember to do the basics for yourselves such as keep yourselves well hydrated (dehydration can really cause our bodies and our minds to feel extra depleted), and try to get a balance of rest and exercise. Especially pay attention to your emotions, and if you feel like you're slipping into depression, be sure to check with your doctor. Sending my love and prayers to you today. Clara |
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