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Post by michelle2204 on Dec 14, 2010 5:45:44 GMT -5
Hi all, I am a long time reader and would like to share my story with you. My daughter was born 10 weeks premature on 11 June 1999. At 12 days old she contracted an infection though a long line drip she had in place. When the nurse discovered she was ill, she was already bleeding from her mouth and was mostly lifeless. The doctors fought for a long time to save her life and I (not knowing what I know now) was desperate for them to save her. She remained near death for about 5 days and then recovered from the infection. The result from the Staphylococcus strain of infection was severe brain damage, epilepsy, mostly blind and deaf. Her father and I were not aware of the extent of the damage until approx a month later when the swelling in the brain had reduced to a size that the doctors could see the white matter. Her diagnosis is spastic quadriplegia cerebral palsy, she is unable to do anything for herself at all. No independent movement, no words, nothing except for a lovely smile. I would very much like to speak with other parents with disabled children, as she gets older, I get more and more afraid for her everyday. Thanks for reading Michelle
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Post by babs on Dec 15, 2010 9:01:33 GMT -5
Michelle, A sad welcome to our group. Everything you wrote resonates with me.......my son, Brody was born early due to a second placental abruption on 4/25/06. Her suffered serve brain damage due to lack of oxygen for 17-20 mins. We also fought and didn't know the extent of his injury until the swelling went down. He sounds alot like your princess in diagnosis and ability. I know thefear and worry, although i haven't been on this road quite as long. I'm so sorry and I truly feel your pain. I'm not around these boards as much but please feel free to find me at facebook or my email is in my info. Again, welcome. Love and peace, Xoxoxo Barb
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Post by babs on Dec 15, 2010 9:31:00 GMT -5
sorry for all the typos.
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Post by monicag on Dec 15, 2010 19:54:05 GMT -5
Hi Michelle, A huge welcome from me. Your daughter's smile sounds like a beautiful gift she shares with the world. Thank you for sharing it with us. My son Jesse is 7 and has an autism and CP diagnosis...(he didn't walk until 3 years...and he is non verbal). These little angels are just that to me and I know they are here for a purpose but I too hear you about the concerns for when they get older. DO you have other children? I have 2 others, a 16 year old daughter and 12 year old son. It has so changed their lives. I am open to chat anytime. I don't get on that often but try to check once in a while. AGAIN WELCOME TO THE CLUB!!!
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Post by michelle2204 on Dec 16, 2010 4:50:28 GMT -5
Hi Babs and Monicag, Thank you so much for your reply. My daughters name is Claire. I also have another beautiful daughter named Olivia who is 6. I feel much better being here. I'm learning how to post a picture of Claire so you can meet her. Thanks
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Post by monicag on Dec 19, 2010 20:39:32 GMT -5
I would love to see a pix of your daughters. I need to figure out how too so I can update my avitar. It's a bit dated.
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