how to find peace?

[borealis]

After going trough IVF for the second time ( the first one was unsuccessful) the second time worked! I was told I was pregnant and that everything was okay, tne next week I went for a regular check up and then my doctor said there was no baby anymore. Somehow something happened and the embryo did not finish attaching.

That broke my hearth and since then I feel so miserable. I can't find my place I dream about my baby and I hate to think that I could have done something better.


i wish I can find a reason to smile again and don't be bitter about this.

[Clara Hinton]

Finding peace is never, ever easy when dealing with something as painful as you're going through. I don't want to make it sound like you'll never find peace because you WILL, but it's going to take time and lots of tears and hard work.

Reach out to others who have gone through similar losses and see how they have managed to somehow find peace. By getting additional support early on, you'll ward off feelings of resentment and bitterness, although I honestly believe most everyone of us that has gone through loss has felt those very emotions at some time or another.

I'm so very sorry that this has happened to you, and I wish that it hadn't happened. Life sure can be hard and so painful!

Please know that my heart is aching with you right now, and I've said a very special prayer that your heart will be wrapped in love and support and that soon you will find your place of peace.

Love,
Clara
PS Have you ever read the book, "When Bad Things Happen to Good People"? If not, I would highly recommend reading it or trying to rent the video. It's excellent and might be able to point you in the direction of peace.