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Post by Alexis on Jun 14, 2008 16:37:48 GMT -5
well i just need some advice i am going through a seperation with my husband we have children . for the purpose of keeping my family together i have lived in h*ll with this man. phsically, mentally and i cant anymore. i am tired of his drinking tired of him and his "not coming home on saturday" i cant take this anymore. come on i do all the wifelly duties then some i pay all the bills , i cook i clean i wash. why is he doing this to me why ?? i have a newborn and i am falling into depression please someone let me know why i caused my husband to treat me like this
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Post by ladybug24 on Jun 15, 2008 13:56:18 GMT -5
i think you are doing the right thing by separating. no one deserves to be treated like that.
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Post by heidi on Jun 15, 2008 16:26:35 GMT -5
You did not cause him to act like this. He made that decision. Hugs. I'm sorry you have to go through this.  |
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Post by ladyann on Jun 18, 2008 21:48:02 GMT -5
You did not cause anything. . .
you do not deserve to be treated that way. . .
he has made choices. .
You have to do what is best for you and your kids. . .
A happy healthy mother is very important to your children's well-being.
I am SO sorry you are going through this.
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Post by Clara Hinton on Jul 17, 2008 16:15:55 GMT -5
Alexis.
As each of the others has said, you didn't cause your husband to do anything. He has a free will and he made some very poor choices. Now it's time for you to choose if you will continue to live with more of the same, or separate and make some positive changes for you and the children.
You mentioned falling into depression and that's a red flag alert to go see your doctor. You won't be able to make good choices if you are depressed. So, please, before the depression takes hold, talk to your doctor and get some help with the depression. Then, you'll feel much stronger and be able to make decisions that are wise and good. My thoughts are with you.
Love,
Clara
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Post by rileyandtheowl on Jul 18, 2008 14:04:09 GMT -5
Everyone here is right. Your husband is a human being *although in his case I am using the word human loosely* and he has free will. He has chosen to treat you this way, and thankfully, you have chosen to be treated like this no more. Draw from this strength. Your children need you. I will be praying for you.
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Post by picunurse on Feb 20, 2009 5:08:59 GMT -5
As a man i don't see you in any fault in this . You are doing everything necassary , he is doing nothing. I left my wife for the same reasons . Luckily? my children are teenagers. But again...YOu are not to blame at all.
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