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Post by Tonya on Oct 31, 2006 11:47:50 GMT -5
It's been 4 months since my lose. and it saddends me that the week before they told me she was doing ok. but i had to spend the night bc of high blood pressure. I sometimes wish they would have just let me stay there the rest of my time i had left and kept me on the moniters!! i'm not really even sure as to what happened bc i had no warning signs! no bleeding no cramps! i am told it may have been possible abruption but i never had an autopsy done so i dont know for sure! my baby was so special to me. not only did i name her in memory of two people i lost but she had the hair i was hoping for. she had black curly hair! (my hair is straight and my bf's is curly)she ended up weighing 7lbs too! i was 6lbs and my bf was 8! I miss her dearly and i hope she knows how much i love her no matter where she is!
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Post by toya81 on Nov 12, 2006 6:51:24 GMT -5
You are in my prayers. I lost my first son on Oct. 21, 2006. I was 7 months and his imbellical cord wrapped around is ankle and leg and cut off his circulation.
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Post by hugabyesmummy on Nov 15, 2006 3:49:25 GMT -5
my little sleeping angel Hugabye (tummy name that we kept as it was chosen by her six year old sister and we felt we should keep her name as it was perfect for her) was born on October 26th 2006 at 6 months, she had a true knot in her cord, she has given me so much and taken away a part of us with her, we have never felt pain like this.................................
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Post by tim on Dec 25, 2006 22:58:25 GMT -5
I am very sorry for you loss. Losing a child never makes sense. As parents we ask what could have been done to prevent what has happened and sometimes place blame on ourselves or others. This is normal and we have to learn to not be so harsh on ourselves, even though this is easer said than done. If we could go back in time and change the course of history, we would. We did the best we could under the circumstances we were in. I pray that the Lord will strengthen and comfort you in your grieving process.
Prayers,
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Post by Trevon&Nevaeh'smommy on Dec 29, 2006 18:31:59 GMT -5
oh tonya, i know how hard it could be. sometimes i imagine SB are a much harder loss to accept ( no offense to anyone, a loss is a loss and is highly important) but we will forever have in our minds the fact that we were robbed from seeing our child walk, talk, say his/her first words, wondered how our grandchildren would look like....i guess we all feel that way. i know you miss your baby girl just as much as i miss trevon. i pray for strength for you and i hope this hurt comes to pass
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