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Post by thankful heart on Oct 3, 2006 15:15:14 GMT -5
Who is your greatest support? What do you do when you are feeling defeated? How do you cope with the unknown of the future? BTW--I love your verse post Monica. I think we all are most encouraged by the Word of God and knowing his complete care for us and our children....
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Post by jillgibson on Oct 3, 2006 15:49:31 GMT -5
I have three people I really rely on for support: DH, my mom, and a close friend When I'm feeling defeated, I pray. I also ask for help from my support people and focus on the positives. As far as facing the unknown future, I plan. I have a hospital bag packed and in my van in case Avery needs to go in-patient. I have 3 contingency plans for care for Izaac if needed. I have people available to cover for me at work.
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Post by my4boys on Oct 3, 2006 20:42:21 GMT -5
First and foremost, is God! I dont know how people get through trials without him.
Secondly, I talk to my sister alot, who has a child with medical issues.
My church is also a huge support. One of my best friends there, is an associate pastor, and also a nurse, and she just has a way of easing my mind and fear. When Lily had surgery, we had tons of offers from church members to help with the other children, meals brought in, and several church members that waited with us in the waiting room throughout her surgery.
Blessings~ Wendy
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Post by monicag on Oct 4, 2006 7:50:49 GMT -5
Who is your greatest support? I know it should be God but I don't turn to him as often as I should. I would guess my husband is my greatest support with physical things. Emotional things it is all the friends I've made on-line who hold me up when I'm falling down.
What do you do when you are feeling defeated? Eat lots of chocolate and cry.
How do you cope with the unknown of the future? I see it as a rollercoaster...there are days and weeks climbing the hills and then quick turns and drops. Did I mention that I hate rollercoasters. Coping with it is just so hard sometimes. I try to remember that Jesse is mine, nomatter what and God knows what he is doing. He has already taught me to slow down and look at life differently. I just worry for his future and who will care for him when I'm not here anymore...
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Post by Myra on Oct 4, 2006 22:51:33 GMT -5
My church friends and family have been great, at least ten of them have helped over the summer with John's therapy. John's ABA therapist is wonderful, she is a christian she is just so sweet and encouraging. Without leaning on the Lord I don't know how I would have made it though this.
Chocolate and coffee are a big help too. One of the other important things is to try and take some time for yourself to relax and get away from the kids. I like to walk on the beach alone early in the morning.
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