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Post by raven on Nov 13, 2005 18:50:54 GMT -5
Hi everyone. A lovely lady who i chat to over the net, lost her little boy last year, around this time, he was born still, she has now lost anouther little boy only a couple of day's ago, she's to have him on monday. He was due in only two weeks. I don't know her all that well not personally really, i visit and chat to her on anouther site that i had been going to before i came across this one, only i had made some lovely friends there so i didn't want to give it up, so now i come here as well! She is lovely and has given me lots of encouragement and support when i've needed it. I just feel so sorry for her and her family, i know how much she loved her little boy and how much she misses him so, and how she was so hoping for the best this time, but it has happened again. How much pain can one endure?? Life can be so cruel sometime's. I hate to think what she must be going through. Im going to send her a card tomorrow, wish i could do more for her. Sorry to go on, it's just been on my mind all day, just so sad. Rebecca
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Post by mamakelky on Nov 13, 2005 19:31:35 GMT -5
I am sorry for what happened to your friend, unfortunatly I am finding out that stillbirths are more common than I had once thought. Does your friend know about this site? I am not very religious, but I will say a prayer for your friend. Best wishes, Kelly.
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Post by ryanandciansmum on Nov 15, 2005 20:53:12 GMT -5
Hi Rebecca, I'm so sorry about your friend and can relate to the terrible pain she is feeling (see my siggy). I too was only 2 weeks away from my induction with Cian. Stillbirth is so heartbreaking when it happens once. Going through that a second time certainly, for me, took away the only hope I had left. I'm truly sorry for your friend. It breaks my heart to know that someone else is suffering the loss of another child.
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Post by hunterandbethsmom on Nov 16, 2005 9:23:06 GMT -5
I agree with Pauline... One loss was horrible, but the second took away all of my hope. I will say a prayer for your friend, I am so sorry that this had to happen.
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Post by raven on Nov 17, 2005 15:11:52 GMT -5
Thankyou all so much for your reply's reguarding my friend, i have sent her a card, of course not enough, i wish i could do so much more for her, but i can't. She is such a brave woman, with alot of courage, i can't begin to imagine her pain, only those who have lost two babies, so close to being born can truly understand, such as you Pauline and Joy. Im so sorry for your loss, and it doesn't surprise me how you would lose hope, yet it breaks my heart. Im ttc again, but im so terrified now. Rebecca
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Post by blessedmom2four on Nov 18, 2005 2:44:03 GMT -5
So sad, what a horible thing to exsperience. I cant imagine bing brave enough to try again only to go through the same thing. I hope this woman has a good support system in place. Prayers for her. Liz
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Post by mypreciousashley on Nov 18, 2005 5:24:17 GMT -5
I am sitting here crying and feel so bad for this women and many of you. I have so many questions to ask others. Will this happen again to me. I so cant imagine the pain twice and my heart goes out to you all and I cannot imagine how hard that is. One time for me is about all I think my sanity can take. Oh my gosh I just cant go through this again. Are us women who have lost at greater risk of still birth or miscarriage again. I had placenta abruption can that happen again. I am very confused and scared
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