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[Corinne]

I saw your post on another thread and wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss of your son Mathew.

Please do not feel you are intruding in anyway. We are all here for the same reason. WE have all lost a child and understand the grief and pain you are feeling. I will bump up the post about sharing your child and you can read about some of our children and when you are ready, tell us more about Mathew.

[heartsore]

{{{{{{{Anita}}}}}}} I am so sorry that you needed to search for us, but I am glad that you found this place. You will find that this is a source of support and compassion because we are all traveling the same road. It is so recent that you lost Matthew. My heart aches each time I "meet" a newly-bereaved parent. I only recently joined after viewing from the sidelines and not registering. There are good people here with a lot of wisdom to offer and we all "get it."

I'm glad I came on before I head out to run errands and saw your post. Others will notice your post and will respond as well.

There is a thread on the second page entitled "Share your child with us" to which I only just posted the other night about my son, Ian, who died nearly three years ago. Please tell us more about your boy when you are ready.

Take care of yourself and visit here frequently

[missingjason]

Anita, You are not intruding. I'm sorry you had to find us but glad you did. All of us here know of everything you are feeling. I hate to welcome you to this club that noone wants to be a part of, but you are one of us now, do not feel unwelcome.
My son Jason Matthew died Apr 26, 2004 in a motorcycle accident

(((Hugs))) to you and come here often to talk.

[ericsmom]

Hi Anita and a sad welcome to our group. I am so sorry that you had to find a place like this, but I'm glad that you have. My Eric died when he was 18 yrs., 1 month and 23 days. Please don't feel you are intruding on us....this is one place you can come and tell us anything. We don't always agree, but we always agree to disagree. Some of us, like you, have just started on this path, some of us are a little further along...some just come and read the messages, some respond. So whatever feels right for you, is right for us. Welcome to our 'new normal'.
Blessings to you as you navigate this path, with those of us who are traveling it as well.

Denise

[pamela]

Hi Anita,

Welcome to Sg. I am very, very sorry for the loss of your son. I see that your loss is very recent. I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling.

Please come and talk to us, we understand how you feel like noone else can. We have all loss our children at different times, different ages, and different ways, but we all feel and understand each others pain so well.

I know right now talking about it may be overwhelming, just know that you are welcome with open arms and gentle hugs whenever you are ready.

(((((((((((((((((Anita)))))))))))))))))

pam