Hysterectomy After Miscarriage

[heidi]

Jc, I'm at the same place in life. If you'd like to pm me for support, I'm here, okay? Hugs.

Heidi

[emttori]

I guess I'll add my opinion here. JC put it nicely and Donna had good points. I agree too many boards here do separate people, we are all here for support. I have only (thankfully) ever belonged to 3 boards, Aidan was my first and only loss, then I moved over to PAM, and now to MAM. The only people I know are from these boards, but I have posted on other boards so I know a few people from LYOC and I had a m/c. I always feel bad to see a board not have too much activity on it. However, I think there are a good amount of women on here, that are active that are facing these realities of living life without any more children. I don't necessarily think I belong to such a board as I am choosing not to have any more children for 2 reasons, 1 I have 4 l/c, and 2 I don't think my body can physically handle any more children. So I'm kind of in the middle. I would hope that someone who has had a hysterectomy would be able to talk with someone who has had multiple losses and decides that having more children wouldn't be in their future. I know they are different, but in a way still the same. I guess the input that would be needed at this time is to see if the people who physically cannot have more children, would be offended by the women who choose after their losses not to have more children. I hope there is a way to make a board like this because while I'd hate to see anyone handle grief alone, I think there are many women here who are active that could support each other on a board like this.