phaide
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mummys little angel
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Post by phaide on Dec 13, 2005 15:45:31 GMT -5
My partner and I lost our precious baby boy 15 months ago. He was 10 months old. He was our miricle baby as my partner didnt think he could have children. Youn see he has very low sperm count. But we had this beautiful soul come into our lives. He was very sick when he was born and the drs didnt think he would survive the night. He did but was taken tragically through aphyxia due to aspheration of stomach contents. it happened so quick in less than 10 minutes. Quinntin was happy and playing when i went to make our beds and in less than 10 minutes he was gone. I had complications with his pregnancy and because of the inadiquite care i got from the midwife he had gone with out oxygen for so long before he was born when they revived him at birth. As he grew we reliased he was developmentally delayed nd the reason we lost our precious little boy ,i believe is through the care i recieved.Now i have just found out i am pregnant and i am so affriad the same thing will happen to this precious gift . How do you get through the fear that it might happen again. Phaide mummy to Quinntin 10 nov 2003.....22 sept 2004
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Post by teacher4 on Dec 13, 2005 17:28:17 GMT -5
Hi Phaide,
I am very sorry about the loss of your baby Quinntin. We never want the same thing to happen again...so we just have to hope and pray for the best.
I invite you to join the women at PAM (pregnant after miscarriage). You are dealing with fears about a new pregnancy and delivery, and perhaps we can support you there.
Hugs Dominique
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Post by heidiforever on Dec 13, 2005 19:15:52 GMT -5
Oh hun I know that feeling! I was wondering about my daughter when I became pregnant with her, would she get the same thing, would she die from it? She didn't get it, but she did die from something else. You're probably not ever going to get over that worry and it's OK, just try to have faith that this baby will be healthy, and I would get a different health professional, if I were you. I am so sorry for your loss! We are here for you hun!
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Post by andrea on Dec 16, 2005 21:45:23 GMT -5
I'm so sorry Phaide. My daughter died almost 14 months ago. She was 16 months. She passed in her sleep from heart failure. She had congenital heart defects. I dont plan on any more children ever so I cant help you as far as being afraid. I'm sure the chance of it happening again are sooooo low, but I can understand why you are afraid. I'm sorry for your loss.
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