Post by elenasmom on Nov 25, 2005 2:21:54 GMT -5
Hi there-
I hate to post things that are negative. I try to write positive things when I come here so that maybe I can encourage the readers of what I write instead of passing on any negativity. But if you all don't mind. I desperately need to vent.
I am angry. So angry it hurts to breathe, eat, or sleep. I haven't slept in weeks. And I can hardly eat on a daily basis which makes me tired and weak and even more moody. The strange thing is that I know and am well aware that anger is one of the 5 stages of grief, I just figured that I had moved past that stage and was moving on to another stage when I seemed to have relapsed into this intense anger again.
It mostly seems to pop up when I come in contact with ignorant people. People who think nothing of anyone else but themselves. People who are so self involved they never stop to think of how good they have it. The news or newspapers make me angry too. If I read of one more person who abuses, neglects, kills, kidnaps, or harms another child I think I might actually explode - It disgusts me!!!!!!! People who throw their children away like they are nothing - It's Insane!!!!
I guess that's why I'm so angry, because I wanted my baby more than anything and she's gone, she couldn't live and I would have given my own life just so she could live hers but I couldn't and other people have gifts in their children and don't even see it.
I want her back so badly it hurts....... It seems like everyone around me is pregnant and having a girl. I used to be the one who was so excited for anyone I found out was having a baby. Now I feel guilty because I am happy for them but I feel so sad at the same time because I feel like I just can't and don't have the strength to be there for them, or share in their happiness. The last baby I held was my own and I don't want to hold any other baby because of that - Is that normal?
I'm sorry for rambling so much, I felt like I needed to explode a little, just vent. I've never really done that before, I just felt like I needed to.
Thank You for listening
And I promise, next time you all hear from me, It will be a positive thought
I hate to post things that are negative. I try to write positive things when I come here so that maybe I can encourage the readers of what I write instead of passing on any negativity. But if you all don't mind. I desperately need to vent.
I am angry. So angry it hurts to breathe, eat, or sleep. I haven't slept in weeks. And I can hardly eat on a daily basis which makes me tired and weak and even more moody. The strange thing is that I know and am well aware that anger is one of the 5 stages of grief, I just figured that I had moved past that stage and was moving on to another stage when I seemed to have relapsed into this intense anger again.
It mostly seems to pop up when I come in contact with ignorant people. People who think nothing of anyone else but themselves. People who are so self involved they never stop to think of how good they have it. The news or newspapers make me angry too. If I read of one more person who abuses, neglects, kills, kidnaps, or harms another child I think I might actually explode - It disgusts me!!!!!!! People who throw their children away like they are nothing - It's Insane!!!!
I guess that's why I'm so angry, because I wanted my baby more than anything and she's gone, she couldn't live and I would have given my own life just so she could live hers but I couldn't and other people have gifts in their children and don't even see it.
I want her back so badly it hurts....... It seems like everyone around me is pregnant and having a girl. I used to be the one who was so excited for anyone I found out was having a baby. Now I feel guilty because I am happy for them but I feel so sad at the same time because I feel like I just can't and don't have the strength to be there for them, or share in their happiness. The last baby I held was my own and I don't want to hold any other baby because of that - Is that normal?
I'm sorry for rambling so much, I felt like I needed to explode a little, just vent. I've never really done that before, I just felt like I needed to.
Thank You for listening
And I promise, next time you all hear from me, It will be a positive thought