iamd3w
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My angel Rhianna
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Post by iamd3w on Oct 31, 2005 12:44:55 GMT -5
The anniversary of my daughters passing is coming up quickly. I miss her so much. THis just sucks so much I dont know what to do with myself. My son's birthday has now passed and it just reminds me that the bad day is coming. He and she got to spend 4 weeks together before she left us--these four weeks were the worst last year too. I wish I had friends here to lean on not just type to.
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Post by danielle on Oct 31, 2005 13:43:19 GMT -5
Hugs to you.... It is a bad time of the year period. With all the holidays comming, it is going to be very hard for everyone. I will keep you in my prayers for strength on this hard day to come. Danielle
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Post by pamela on Oct 31, 2005 19:10:14 GMT -5
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. What was her name? How old was she? I can understand why this time of the year is very hard on you. Anniversarys's have a way of putting our already overloaded emotions completely out of whack.
Remember try to just concentrate on getting through one day at a time. Make sure you alllow yourself time to grieve. I know the hardest part is the missing part. Its so hard not to beable to hold them in our arms again.
I will keep you in my thoughts and please come back and tell us more about your precious little one.
Take care of yourself.
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Post by locito on Nov 1, 2005 11:23:46 GMT -5
Big hug, and wishing you strength. I know its hard...you will get through it as difficult as it might be. I wish you all the comfort in the world.
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Post by Corinne on Nov 1, 2005 14:34:33 GMT -5
It is so hard to face the anniversaries. My son's is coming up in just 10 days, it has been 4 years since he passed away.
Tell us more about yourself and your daughter. It does help to share.
Corinne
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iamd3w
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My angel Rhianna
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Post by iamd3w on Nov 2, 2005 0:49:06 GMT -5
My daughter's name was Rhianna Keelie Brook _____. She was three and a half when she passed away on November 24, 2003. She lived with cerebral palsy, it was pretty severe but she was a tough little Taurus girl. We called her our Nana. She was a beautiful little angel here on earth. She smiled at me and I felt so loved. I just want to hug her right now.
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Post by Corinne on Nov 2, 2005 9:51:03 GMT -5
Rhianna...What a beautiful name!
My son, Tim, had CP also. He was severe, blind and had to be fed by a feeding tube.
My heart goes out to you. What is your first name? You will find people to talk to here that will really listen.
Take care
Corinne
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iamd3w
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My angel Rhianna
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Post by iamd3w on Nov 2, 2005 15:46:29 GMT -5
My name is Dominique. I am 29 and have been married to my husband Camille for 11 years now. We have been pregnant four times so far. We lost the first and last one in the first trimester. Rhianna was the first born and then her brother Devlen was born. Rhianna passed away four weeks after Devlen was born two years ago. She got around by wheelchair and was fed by g-tube. She had trouble seeing a bit because she couldn't control her eye movements but her hearing was good. She passed away soundly in her sleep after the greatest week of her life. I thought she was progressing instead she was getting ready to leave. Well, we are trying to bring one more baby into this world to share our love with.
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iamd3w
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My angel Rhianna
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Post by iamd3w on Nov 4, 2005 10:46:22 GMT -5
I'm a little lost with this message board--is there a chat room too or do we just message back and forth? It seems a little slow to wait I need a little more chit chat, I just need an "ear"
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Post by andrea on Nov 5, 2005 22:02:41 GMT -5
I'm sorry Dominique, I know what you're going through. A little over a week ago was the first anniversary of our daughters death. It's so hard to deal with. We miss her so much. She was the light of our lives. She also passed away peacefully in her sleep. She died of heart failure at 16 months old. She had a serious heart condition. She was supposed to have open heart surgery to repair some of the defects, but she never got that far. :-( I'm sorry you're going through this.
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