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Post by lovemymonkeys on Nov 12, 2005 9:45:28 GMT -5
Hi honey, it's just me...I know we already talked about this last night, but just wanted you to know that I'm keeping you & Jer in my prayers. I do like Ellie's idea, though!! OOPS!! I don't know how that happened honey, you must have Super Spermies!! Love ya, Audra
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Post by nptkam on Nov 12, 2005 21:03:38 GMT -5
Mandee, I'm so sorry you are going through this.
When we got married, we decided we would start trying when we'd been married 2 years. Right before our anniversary, DH announced that he was nowhere ready to have a baby as we really couldn't afford it. The day before my anniversary a co-worker announced she was pg. I cried everyday for 6 weeks. Since she was starting to get chunky, I finally told DH about it and the lightbulb went on. He asked how long I knew and figured I found out right around our anniversary. Three days later he announced that we could start trying. He was so sick of seeing me cry. Since my sister and her DH had been trying for 3 years with no success, he thought we'd probably have trouble too. I was pg the second cycle that we tried.
Men are so wired to provide that they want everything perfect. There never seems to be a perfect time to have a baby. There never seems to be enough money. Someone told me that if we waited for the perfect time to have a baby, we never would.
I will keep you in my prayers that Jeremy can work through whatever issues are behind this change of mind. DH did the same thing to me after we lost Thomas. He said he didn't want another baby. He was petrified of losing another baby. Men are supposed to be strong, but inside they are just scared little boys most times.
Pam
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