Giving up .... for now

[Shar]

Well since I've been actively TTC on my (our) own for over a year now... I've decided to stop charting. I just can't MAKE myself get up at 4 am even on my days off, just to keep track. Escpecially since in August I was diagnosed with PCOS.. and know I'm NOT ovulating regularly, even though my temps suggest that I am. So for now we'll be BD'ing only when we want to (like that ACTUALLY CHANGED!!) I dunno.. do you think that's still TTC or not? How about I'm PRAYING TO CONCEIVE instead of TRYING... sound good??




MarieAnne Elizabeth
~18 August 2004~
Born 5:20 am
Died 6:40 am
Born at 20weeks 5 days


Born too early, gone to fast,
But our love is strong,
And our memories will last.

[babs]

That sounds lovely to me,Shar! ;D
I think that even when we say we're not 'actively' trying, we know our bodies TOO well at this point and can still pin point the symptoms...yeah helpful,right?!?! ::)Any way I think to be relaxed as possible is the best way to live...so it couldn't hurt for TTC,huh?
Love and peace!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

[nikkimount]

I'm with you two. I think with my last and only pg I prayed more than I tried b/c I wasn't charting I just KNEW when I o'd. Even though that pregnancy didn't last my prayers worked. I got what I prayed for!

[fidget]

That does sound good to me Sharmel. It may be even better. Sleep in, relax and enjoy your time with dh as many times as you can That to me is actively going for it with all the hard stuff out of your way. Hope this method works for you..

Tanya

[Sue]

Good luck to you Sharmel. Everyone keeps telling me to "just relax" )as if it's that easy! ) so I hope it works for you.

[my3girls]

Before we found out about Piglet we had decided to stop medically trying until after the holidays. I just wasn't up for another round of Clomid & we weren't sure our marriage was up for it either It actually made me feel a lot better just taking back control of the situation & not being on the dr's schedule. Sleep in, have fun with your dh when you feel like it & realize that half the fun is in the trying! Good luck!

[christal]

What symptoms of PCOS do you have?

[Alicia]

Good luck! I hope you get a happy 'surprise' soon!!

[kellansmommy]

Hey Shar,
I hear you! I'm so ready to give up, but darn it I want a BABY! I just don't know what to do! Nonew of us should be having these problems! We should all be talking about our aches and pains and how many more days until our sweet precious babies are going to be here.
I hope this stategy works for you!
Good Luck!
Nikki.

[Lendy]

I like that "Praying to Conceive"!

I hope you do conceive while you are taking a break from 'trying'.

Lendy