Post by my3girls on Nov 8, 2005 11:23:13 GMT -5
Ok - this one may get long - I just don't know what to do.
We tried for a year to get pg with Piglet & lost her @ 12 weeks from a chromosome screw up. This was the second one I have lost & both were 12/14 weeks. My Ob/Gyn sent me to an RE for more tests/blood work etc. So far all my blood tests, cervical tests, hysteroscopy - all came back normal & great. The tests on the placenta came back normal - the only problem was that one chromosome - - - so why won't my RE release me?!?!?! The last time I saw him he put me on birth control & said that we will go straight from that back onto Clomid when all the results come in. I went in yesterday for the hysteroscopy & it turned out fine (hurt like h*ll though). He wants me to do ANOTHER round of blood work & come back on the 28th to see how they turned out & see if we are ready to start Clomid. I am SOOOO sick & tired of being a d*mn pin cushion!!! He has already billed my insurance company for right at $3000 worth of tests & procedures - that's more than my OB charged me all year!! I'm starting to feel like a milk cow for his paycheck.
Yes - I want to know that I have done everything possible to ensure a healthy pregnancy next time & I understand that he is worried about whether I am ready to try again - but come on already! How long do I stick with the program when EVERY SINGLE RESULT has come back perfect? My body didn't reject Piglet & nothing was wrong between our two bodies - it was just a fluke thing that no one could control. So why is he still bleeding me dry here? My best friend went with me yesterday since my DH couldn't get off of work - she's been through all the same tests & she heard all his answers & was even able to ask some questions that I hadn't thought of - & she doesn't understand why he is still hesitant to let us start trying again.
Thanks - I just needed to vent.
We tried for a year to get pg with Piglet & lost her @ 12 weeks from a chromosome screw up. This was the second one I have lost & both were 12/14 weeks. My Ob/Gyn sent me to an RE for more tests/blood work etc. So far all my blood tests, cervical tests, hysteroscopy - all came back normal & great. The tests on the placenta came back normal - the only problem was that one chromosome - - - so why won't my RE release me?!?!?! The last time I saw him he put me on birth control & said that we will go straight from that back onto Clomid when all the results come in. I went in yesterday for the hysteroscopy & it turned out fine (hurt like h*ll though). He wants me to do ANOTHER round of blood work & come back on the 28th to see how they turned out & see if we are ready to start Clomid. I am SOOOO sick & tired of being a d*mn pin cushion!!! He has already billed my insurance company for right at $3000 worth of tests & procedures - that's more than my OB charged me all year!! I'm starting to feel like a milk cow for his paycheck.
Yes - I want to know that I have done everything possible to ensure a healthy pregnancy next time & I understand that he is worried about whether I am ready to try again - but come on already! How long do I stick with the program when EVERY SINGLE RESULT has come back perfect? My body didn't reject Piglet & nothing was wrong between our two bodies - it was just a fluke thing that no one could control. So why is he still bleeding me dry here? My best friend went with me yesterday since my DH couldn't get off of work - she's been through all the same tests & she heard all his answers & was even able to ask some questions that I hadn't thought of - & she doesn't understand why he is still hesitant to let us start trying again.
Thanks - I just needed to vent.
