saying Hello

[Heather Micaela]

I am glad that this board is up again, though I never thought I'd be in this particular forum.

I have 2 living children then had a misarriage at 11 1/2 weeks almost a year ago. we named the baby Taylor.

My 4th pregnancy just ended in m/c too. The beeding started October 12. We named the baby Skye.

I'm glad to have this place for support.

I will write more later when I have time

[Darlanne]

Heather (((hugs))),
With a heavy heart I share in the sorrow of your losses, I am so sorry. I have been a member of SG since I lost my son James in 2003, the darkest time of my life.

Surviving a m/c, much less mult. m/c's is difficult to do alone, so please when you are feeling overwhelmed know you can come here and share. Just before the boards went down I experienced my 4th m/c and the sense of relief I felt when I saw that the boards were back up was almost therapeutic. However, it beaks my heart that you have found yourself here, the "MTOM club", a club no one wants to be a member of.

Heather you will be close in my thoughts and prayers, may the coming days be easy on your heart.

oooxxx
Peace, Love & Prayers

[Freedom]

A sad welcome to you. Darlanne said it straight to the point...no one wants to belong to this board....MTOM is a sad board with many that have similar stories. I am just so sorry that you had to join us here. I have been a member here for 2 years. My first baby I lost was total shock, the 2nd even more of a shock that it happend again, then w/ this third one in August it didn't shock me as much, just compiled on to the other wounds I already had. I have living children, but my last 3 babies were all boys, all around the same gestation age, 16, 15 and 11 weeks and the tests all showed that the were fine and healthy....but for some reason they have died. I do not want to end on the note I am at, but how does one keep getting pg.....and hurting more and more? I wish that I could give you words that would take the pain that comes w/ this kind of loss away, but I don't know of any. I am glad under the sad circumstances that you have found s/g. It is a wonderful board......with lots of warm people. Try to update us when you can as you work through this tough grief of the loss of your little one. A sad welcome to the MTOM board.

Tonya