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Post by alexandersmom on Nov 29, 2005 1:36:32 GMT -5
WELL LADIES, I AM STILL SITTING HERE WAITING FOR MY BODY TO FIGURE OUT THAT THIS BABY HAS NO HEARTBEAT. IT HAS BEEN A ROUGH 2 WEEKS SITTING AND WAITING FOR IT TO HAPPEN NATURALLY. I CALLED THE DR'S OFFICE TODAY AND I HAVE APPOINTMENT FOR THURSDAY. I ASKED THAT I HAVE ONE MORE U/S JUST TO EASE MY MIND. I REALIZE I HAD 3 U/S'S ON THE 15TH AND THERE WAS A COUPLE OF HOURS BETWEEN THEM. BUT I CAN'T GET PAST THE WHAT IF'S? SO I WILL HAVE ANOTHER U/S THURSDAY AND THEN SCHEDULE THE D&C FOR NEXT WEEK. THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT AND WORDS OF ADVICE AS TO WHICH WAY TO GO. I COME TO THE BOARDS ALMOST EVERY NIGHT TO READ. IT BREAKS MY HEART THAT THERE ARE SO MANY OF US THAT HAVE TO SUFFER THIS PAIN.
THANKS AGAIN
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Post by mommyof3angels on Nov 29, 2005 1:38:56 GMT -5
I am sorry. {{{{HUGS}}}
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Post by my2angels on Nov 29, 2005 1:57:55 GMT -5
I am so sorry that you have to suffer through this pain ~ please know that I am thinking of you.
HUGS,
Cass
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Coping
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Post by Coping on Nov 29, 2005 8:04:07 GMT -5
I am so sorry that your are in this terrible state of waiting. I wish you strength to get through it.
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Post by tdandlasmith on Nov 29, 2005 10:00:59 GMT -5
I was due the same time that you are, and found out one day before you that my baby had no heartbeat. I had the D&C the following day because my doctor felt like this would be the best course of action. I still wonder what if. I feel for you in everyway and if there is anything that I can do to help even if it is just to listen please let me know.
My God bless you and keep you and grant you peace.
Much love and sympathy,
Lea Anne
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eruiz
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Post by eruiz on Nov 29, 2005 12:19:57 GMT -5
I am so sorry. When I went in 3 weeks ago they found no heartbeat on my little girl and I had a D&C 3 days later. I have never prayed so hard I just was determined that He would give me my little one back. On the day I went in to the hosp I begged for another sono they gave it to me for peace of mind. But still nothing I was so dissappointed in myself. I my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Post by AlanasMomma on Nov 29, 2005 14:56:22 GMT -5
so sorry sweetie. There is nothing they can do sooner??
I had a blighted ovum and had to wait to miscarry on my own.
That was a week of h*ll!
If(and I pray hourly that it doesn't) it happens again, I will BEG for a d&c.
*hugs* to you and God bless.
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nikkimount
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In this world ye will have trouble. (John 16:33)
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Post by nikkimount on Nov 29, 2005 18:04:10 GMT -5
*Hugs*
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Post by Teardrops on Nov 30, 2005 0:37:23 GMT -5
I'm so sorry hun my prayers are with you at this difficult time................((((hugs))))
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Post by my3girls on Nov 30, 2005 11:53:20 GMT -5
I can't even imagine what the last 2 weeks have been for you ~ I am so incredably sorry that you have had to go through all of this. The decision to have a D&C isn't easy & it is scary. I knew that there was no way I could handle the waiting for nature to kick in ~ I can't even begin to understand how hard these 2 weeks have been for you. I know this is nosey & please don't be mad at me for asking - but is it healthy for your body to have this go on for so long? Is there something your Dr should have done by now to help you? I am so sorry hon.
Brie
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Post by lostone on Dec 1, 2005 22:07:04 GMT -5
i was just like you wondering "what if my baby is still alive?" "what if the doctors made a mistake?" or what if this n that u know? i was in denial i was still thinkin my baby was alive and wasn't gone because i didn't miscarriage but i was having all the symptoms or my lower back hurting and cramping and stuff like that and then a week or so later i miscarried finally and then that's when i realized that they were right my baby was gone and i was so mad and so hurt and angry at them but i hope everything goes good for u with ur d&c n my prayers will be with you i know it's hard
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