eruiz
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Post by eruiz on Nov 27, 2005 18:58:55 GMT -5
I am new to this site and I just want to introduce myself. My name is Emilia and I lost my first child in Nov 2002 at 11 weeks. Then finally by the grace of God and a great Dr I had a little girl in Feb 2004. She has been the light of my life. I found out in September that I was pregnant with the 3. My husband and I were so excited to have another. I had 2 sonos, labs, you know all the fun stuff. The Dr said everything was great but then at my last appt 3 weeks ago my Dr could not find my baby's heart beat. I went in for a sono to find out the baby passed away. I do not understand I was 14 weeks with no pain, no blood, and I just can not figure out what happened. I know God has a plan for my husband and I but I will never understand. I am trying to get back to my life but I feel so hurt and angry. I am doing my best to get through this. I am blessed that I have my Gabby to help me right now.
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Post by Teardrops on Nov 27, 2005 19:49:28 GMT -5
I am so very sorry for your losses I know nothing can take the pain away. Thank god for the children we do have there is no way I could have survived without my little ones. I know what you mean when you say your angry I am so angry sad and confused and it has been 7months since my loss. I am sorry the reason you are here at silent grief but you can never find a better place to come and feel supported and understood at this hard time. I try to trust in god just as you do and know that he has a plan........ hugs
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Post by my3girls on Nov 28, 2005 14:37:40 GMT -5
I wish there was something more comforting than just telling you that I'm so sorry. I had no clue about my loss with Piglet either. No cramping, no bleeding - I was very sick for about 2 weeks but we thought that was just stress from Hurricane Katrina & loosing power for so long in the heat! We found out on u/s that she was gone within 12 - 24 hours of the Dr visit. I still have a hard time accepting that I had no clue what was going on & that I was powerless to stop it or prevent it.
We're here when you need us hon, Brie
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Post by heavyheart on Nov 28, 2005 14:55:16 GMT -5
As my doc explained to me, when typical problems do not present which are easily identified and when the baby comes back without chromosonal defects it usually means something medical was wrong with the baby which could not be detected at that point in the development, i.e. brain adnormality, heart abnormality, etc.
I understand your pain and your feelings. I went to a sonogram at 12w3d and was told the baby had no heartbeat (the felt it had happened the 24 hours prior to the appointment). The hardest part has been grieving, being hurt and angry are part of the grieving process.
((((((HUGS))))))
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Post by mommyof3angels on Nov 28, 2005 19:30:34 GMT -5
Sorry about your losses.
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eruiz
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Post by eruiz on Nov 28, 2005 20:01:10 GMT -5
Thank you for your support and your prayers I really appreciate it.
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Post by mommyof3angels on Nov 28, 2005 20:45:55 GMT -5
You are welcome.
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Post by mom2booman on Nov 28, 2005 22:39:28 GMT -5
I lost my son at 13 weeks after many ultrasounds. I had one the morning i lost him actually and he was alive and that night i gave birth to him at home. I too thank God for having one living child, he is the greatest blessing.
God does have a plan for everything, but we will never understand many things b/c He is God and we are not. He is too big for us to every understand. But He is a great God.
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