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Post by nancym on Nov 25, 2005 16:45:07 GMT -5
I hust had a m/c 2 days ago and my husband doesn't understand why I'm not over it yet. He thinks that because it was early i(5 weeks) t was inconsequential. Wrong! Every time he sees me cry he asks me what's wrong.....duh.
It's really sad for me as you all know and I am wondering if anyone has any advice or if anyone has gone through something similar with a husband or partner.
thanks
Nancy
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Post by Teardrops on Nov 25, 2005 16:58:24 GMT -5
I am so very sorry for your loss my dh is very patient but he didnt exactly know how much pain I was in especially since we have 3 kids he figured I would just think well I'll have another one. I sat him down one night and I said imagine us hearing the same story of someone in a car accident who was killed or hurt badly I am sure we would both say oh my goodness I'm so sorry and then maybe we wouldnt think about it much more after that...he agreed....then I said ok now imagine if one of us were in that car....that's how I feel with the loss of my baby it was in my body and loved from the beginning this is a huge loss for me it's not just emotional..we can share that but it was physical and that's a part I have to go through alone. He got tears in his eyes and he has been so wonderful ever since....maybe that might help him to be more sensitive.........youll be in my prayers
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Post by mommyof3angels on Nov 25, 2005 18:06:43 GMT -5
So sorry about your loss. {{{HUGS}}}
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Post by nancym on Nov 25, 2005 19:59:59 GMT -5
Thank you so much for your kind words. I do have to speak to dh and try to let him know how I feel. At the least, even if he can't understand I hope he gives me space without pressuring me to get over it. Take care. best to all.
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