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Post by Mommy2amazingGrace on Nov 5, 2005 18:00:37 GMT -5
I have been hearing that so much lately, because my sister just had a baby and I am not dealing with it well. I am very good at not showing my grief to my sister and my brother-in-law, but around everyone else, they all know how I feel. And they all tell me that it's going to be ok and so on and so on. It's just so hard, knowing that they don't know how I feel, so I can't tell them what I want to say, which is, "No it's not ok. and it's not going to be ok. If it were ok, I'd still be pregnant"
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Post by bbear on Nov 6, 2005 13:12:34 GMT -5
im glad we are all back too, but I miss some of the other girls that havent logged in yet I hope they come back too
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Post by sadmomof3and1angel on Nov 6, 2005 16:38:39 GMT -5
I have been hearing that so much lately, because my sister just had a baby and I am not dealing with it well. I am very good at not showing my grief to my sister and my brother-in-law, but around everyone else, they all know how I feel. And they all tell me that it's going to be ok and so on and so on. It's just so hard, knowing that they don't know how I feel, so I can't tell them what I want to say, which is, "No it's not ok. and it's not going to be ok. If it were ok, I'd still be pregnant" I love you Amber!!!
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Post by Mommy2amazingGrace on Nov 6, 2005 18:51:19 GMT -5
I have been hearing that so much lately, because my sister just had a baby and I am not dealing with it well. I am very good at not showing my grief to my sister and my brother-in-law, but around everyone else, they all know how I feel. And they all tell me that it's going to be ok and so on and so on. It's just so hard, knowing that they don't know how I feel, so I can't tell them what I want to say, which is, "No it's not ok. and it's not going to be ok. If it were ok, I'd still be pregnant" I love you Amber!!! I love you too Kelly!!! Remember that I am here with you no matter how far I really am. And I'll bet our angels are up there together, playing, and thanking us that we brought them together up there, by meeting down here.
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Post by sadmomof3and1angel on Nov 8, 2005 20:15:14 GMT -5
Ypure 10000 % right!!!
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Sue
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Post by Sue on Nov 9, 2005 0:30:50 GMT -5
The latest thing that I hate to hear is "are you pregnant again yet?". I know people are just wondering but I just feel like screaming "NEVER ask a woman who is TTC if she is pregnant yet!". I also feel like I can never be sick or else people are suspicious that I must be having morning sickness. I went home sick the other day and the next day a co-worker came up to me and said "I didn't know you were sick. Are you...(and then she rubbed her tummy!)". I immediately got tears in my eyes, said no and walked away when I really felt like screaming at her. I also feel like people are CONSTANTLY looking at my belly for any signs. It's mostly my co-workers who do it and it is getting so annoying. Maybe I should just get a sign that says NOT PREGNANT YET!
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Post by mommyof3angels on Nov 26, 2005 7:18:15 GMT -5
Yeah I do.
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Post by Teardrops on Nov 26, 2005 13:16:35 GMT -5
Yeah I hate it too....I know they mean well but I'm crying so hard right now I miss my baby.........I'm just so very sad I haven't eaten in 2 days....I'm just tired of waiting to feel better when it's not happening so I don't want to hear it's gonna be ok.....and I need time...It won't be ok as long as my baby is gone
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Post by XicaChica on Nov 27, 2005 18:55:59 GMT -5
I have heard it all! And like Sue, I have various co-workers looking at my belly. I feel like screaming "I gained 10lbs of depression! " Geez people are so rude!
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Post by izzybee on Nov 29, 2005 9:34:57 GMT -5
I hate that and I also get but you have 3 other kids. I want to reply.."and your point is..." people just don't think before they speak.
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Post by kellee on Nov 30, 2005 21:42:39 GMT -5
I agree, I hate that AND "God will give you other babies." Of course He will, but I want THIS ONE back! ~Kellee
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frankie
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Post by frankie on Nov 30, 2005 22:22:05 GMT -5
yeah, my bf says i jus gotta "move on" and that i'll get another chance later. i don't care about another chance, i want my jenny!
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