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Post by carlyj on Apr 22, 2015 22:26:01 GMT -5
I gave up before I tried. I got pregnant by accident but i was excited to hear the news. I was pregnant with the child of someone i loved! Turns out he didnt love me. Had the nerve to question the paternity. So then i was scared and all alone but mostly I didn't want history to repeat itself. My child growing up without a father and me working 24/7 to provide for us. I was selfish and didn't think anything through about how I was going to feel afterwards. I can't look at myself in the mirror. I'm ashamed. I beat myself up every day. I blame the father for turning his back on me, I blame myself for being a coward. I can't get passed the guilt, anguish and devastation that's wreaking havoc on my emotioNal state. I've been diagnosed bipolar and I can't seem to think straight. I had a 2nd mom who WAS there for me when my own mother gave up. She passed away just before my pregnancy. She would be so ashamed if she saw me now.
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Post by jaredsmommyforever on Nov 1, 2015 3:18:57 GMT -5
I am so sorry to hear how hard you are being on yourself. You did what made the most sense to you at the time. And I am so sad that this board is inactive so you have not received support here. You sound so alone and in such anguish. I hope others will come back and provide that support. I hope you have come to some amount of peace since you posted this back in April.
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