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Post by myangelamanda on Mar 8, 2016 18:00:34 GMT -5
Hi Everyone!
I wanted to post this on Facebook in the worst way but there are way too many who wouldn't understand the question so here it is:
Does anyone else try to figure out the cliche everyone seems to have in their back pocket "Everythng happens for a reason?"
I have heard it a thousand (maybe only 75) times regarding Amanda's death. So over the past, almost 12 years, I question every little thing trying to find the "reason" to the point I think I am crazy. Am I alone? Does anyone else HATE that comment?
xox ~ michele
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Post by judiann on Apr 12, 2016 16:45:02 GMT -5
Hey!!
Good to see you((((hugs))))& stuff :-) Your right about FB, too many just wouldn't get it & FB would "crash" with every cliche/platitude there is.
After 12 years, I really don't question much anymore,don't talk much about him....nobody wants to hear it, nobody IRL even remembers. The few times I've heard that "Everything..blahblahblah" Well, name ONE. Just ONE REASON. Explain to ME, WHY??...the silence is deafening, there is no answer. The only thing I can figure is we all have "time"...a time to be born, a time to die, etc. You've heard the song or read the bible verse...Ecclesiastic?? It's the only thing that seems to make any sense to me
Honey, you're not alone. I'm crazy right there with you & have been for all these years. I'm sure there's more of us here...
So...yeah,I HATE that comment along with a few more. But at my age, the absence of friends & no family anymore...I really don't care.
I hope you & your family are doing well. Maybe we will see each other again soon :-) None of us check in much anymore & I guess that's a good thing. I miss "us" though.
Much Love,Hugs & Kisses, judiann
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Post by dmf53 on Apr 21, 2016 18:41:22 GMT -5
Hey Judiann! I miss us, too! Hope you and Don are well.
Love you!! Dru
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Post by pocooso on May 6, 2016 22:01:42 GMT -5
No, I don't think about that. It's such a generic saying. The reason my daughter was murdered is that the government and law makers are lenient. They allowed a 9-time Repeat DUI offender to have a valid driver's license and have poorly designed intersections that don't allow victims to see danger heading their way. He should've already been locked up for life.
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