A year now.....

[judiann]

....since my mom died. a year now. the relief is terribly awesome....mostly for her, as she suffered so much....but for us as she suffered so much & refused to to tell us or let us know ......no good deed or kind word went unpunished. We... Me ...I've payed for it all. Dad gave away all rhat was Mine in a week.

can't do this now....sooooo I don't know....tooo much

Love yaz
judiann

[lindac]

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I just wanted to send tons of hugs. You did the best that you could for your mother. What more could you do? It is not your fault that your mother couldn't allow you fully into her life. It is her loss and very sad for both of you.
I'm glad I checked in today. I am not here very often. I seem to spend the majority of my computer time on Facebook.

Love you dear friend.